Saturday, February 13, 2016

Finding Yourself Instead: An Important Note on Valentine's Day

I know Valentine's day is a hard and discouraging holiday for a lot of people including myself. I feel like I'm always doubting myself and wondering why I don't have a boyfriend or why I am not in a relationship. I just have to tell myself that it's not time. I must fall in love with myself before I can fall in love with someone else. It is about being able to do things by yourself and be content with it. Learning to take care of yourself and look out for your own interests. It's all about knowing your worth. I think this is crucial for a happy relationship because if you aren't confident in yourself then you won't know what standards to hold your boyfriend to. I think it is very important to respect yourself, so that if someone tries to push it too far you are able to say no and hold your ground. That way you know how to get out of a toxic relationship or a relationship that is not going anywhere. I think I really am starting to truly feel confident in myself, it takes time but I feel like I know what I want and am not willing to settle. I encourage you guys to have a faith in timing that everything will happen for a reason. I know it is really hard and it may feel like it is never going to ever come, but the truth is if it is not here just be patient and work on yourself. And for all of those in a relationship, I hope you know the value of yourself in the relationship. I'm a little bit jealous of you, but I'm content. And for all you single girls like me put on your favorite outfit, curl your hair, and go out and get ice cream with your best friends. Life is way to valuable to waste a day sulking around. Check out the quotes bellow as well as my Tumblr for some inspiration!


Thanks for Reading,
Ashley



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