Monday, June 18, 2018

Just Slow Down

The other night I was having a sleepy conversation over text before drifting off to bed and I realized something that changed my thinking. The message was from someone who was so purely enjoying life simply because they knew how to make the best of the moment they were in. And that's when I realized so often we are rushing to something else instead of enjoying the present moment we are in. We've all done it, we're all rushing to get to Friday or to summer or to some other position in life. We think oh things will be so much better if I can get to this point or that point. Or maybe you've been dreaming of something and think if you just have it then everything will be okay. Then before we know it in the midst of all the running and rushing, we've missed out on so many of the little moments that make life worth living. 

So sometimes you just need to slow down. You just need to say you know what, I can't wait for that point, but I'm also so happy to be right where I am right now. For me, I'm always rushing to get back to school in the fall, to be reunited with all my friends and the place I love. But often times I brush over the little moments from my summer at home, like Sunday afternoon trips to the grocery store with my mom or trips to the lake or just lounging and reading by the pool. Those things should not be a means to pass the time but to enjoy, that conversation with your mom as you walk down the ice cream aisle and that hello to your neighbor and her adorable baby girl as you relax by the pool. 

Life becomes so much more meaningful when you enjoy every little bit of beauty that it has to offer you. Chase after your dreams and what you want but don't be afraid to enjoy yourself along the way. And sometimes letting things have the time and space they need can make them even stronger in the end. It's amazing how much less complicated and beautiful the journey becomes when you just slow down and trust that what you want will come around in due time. So breathe in, breathe out, and slow down. 


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